Children can be traumatized in many ways. Most of it comes from their parents.
Are you aware that the fights between you and your partner affect your child negatively? Read below.
Home is the safest zone for your child, and it is the core pillar that develops mentally healthy human beings in the future. When this safest place is invaded by your fights regularly, your child is exposed to all the negative energies that hamper his/her childhood. These energies also have a significant negative impact on them as adults.
- Your child becomes insecure because of regular fights you and your partner have. Your kids don’t feel safe in the safest place which is their home.
- Your child starts blaming themselves for this kind of situation. They think something is wrong with themselves because of which their parents are fighting.
- When your little one sees you fighting just after stepping into the house, they fail to understand what is happening and get confused. They feel helpless because all they can do is stand there and witness the fight.
These later transform into anxiety and lead to depression in severe cases.
They often get into fights at school with their friends, have mental breakdowns, and cannot focus on anything including studying. They always carry tension and have a cloak of negative energy surrounding them throughout their lives. Is this environment going to change your kid's life in the future? Yes! Definitely.
Human beings always live with memories.
Everything they react to is because of past experiences stored as memories. Because of these memories, your child will always feel never-ending pressure. He/she will always be haunted by these memories. Whatever situation comes up in the future, he/she will react according to their memories.
If they get into a fight with their partners in the future, he/she will react similarly just like his/her parents did. All these are because of bitter memories of his/her childhood. So, you as parents need to be careful about your behavior in front of your children. This is because it gets imprinted on their delicate minds and at every stage of their life (childhood, adolescence, and adulthood) is ruined.
Children are happy when they see their parents happy and sharing good times. They don’t need money to be happy, but they do need comfortable surroundings.
- Want a deeper understanding of this situation?
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With love ❤️
Thida Aung
Mar 22, 2023 (Wednesday)
